Dialectical Behavior Therapy worksheets

A skills-heavy approach combining CBT, mindfulness, and explicit acceptance training.


DBT, developed by Marsha Linehan, was originally designed for chronically suicidal clients with borderline personality disorder. It combines change-oriented CBT techniques with acceptance-oriented mindfulness practices.

The skills are organized into four modules: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness.

All Dialectical Behavior Therapy worksheets (21)

DBT

DEAR MAN Communication Script

A step-by-step script (Describe, Express, Assert, Reinforce, Mindful, Appear confident, Negotiate) for assertive requests.

Relationships Self Esteem
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TIPP Skill Card

A pocket-sized reference for the four TIPP skills (Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, Paired muscle relaxation) used to lower…

Stress Anger Panic
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Wise Mind Worksheet

A worksheet for finding the synthesis of "emotion mind" and "reasonable mind" in a difficult decision.

Stress Anger
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Distress Tolerance ACCEPTS

A handout listing strategies (Activities, Contributing, Comparisons, Emotions, Pushing away, Thoughts, Sensations) for surviving an emotion…

Stress Anger
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PLEASE Skills Self-Audit

A self-care audit covering physical illness, eating, mood-altering substances, sleep, and exercise.

Depression Stress
DBT

Opposite Action Worksheet

A guided worksheet for identifying when an emotion does not fit the facts and acting opposite to its action urge.

Anxiety Depression Anger
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Radical Acceptance Reflection

A worksheet for practicing acceptance of a reality you cannot currently change without endorsing it.

Grief Stress Trauma
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Check the Facts Worksheet

A DBT cognitive worksheet for examining whether the intensity of an emotion matches the situation.

Anxiety Anger
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GIVE Skills Reference

A handout of the GIVE interpersonal skills (Gentle, Interested, Validate, Easy manner) for preserving relationships.

Relationships
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FAST Self-Respect Skills

A reference for FAST (Fair, Apologies-no-excess, Stick to values, Truthful) — the DBT skills for keeping self-respect in interactions.

Relationships Self Esteem
DBT

Pros and Cons of Acting on Urges

A four-quadrant worksheet for evaluating the short- and long-term consequences of acting on a destructive urge.

Anger
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STOP Skill Walkthrough

A practice worksheet for the STOP distress-tolerance skill (Stop, Take a step back, Observe, Proceed mindfully).

Anger Stress
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Half-Smile and Willing Hands

A reference card for the body-based DBT acceptance practices.

Stress Mindfulness
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Self-Soothe Five Senses Menu

A printable menu of self-soothing activities organized by sensory channel.

Stress Self Esteem
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Build Mastery and Cope Ahead

A planner combining a daily mastery activity with a cope-ahead rehearsal of an upcoming hard situation.

Depression Anxiety
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Diary Card

A standard DBT diary card for tracking emotions, urges, skills used, and target behaviors across the week.

Depression Anger
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Boundary-Setting Script

A planner for a specific boundary you need to set — what to say, what to expect, what to do if it isn't respected.

Relationships Self Esteem
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Emotion Regulation Diary

A daily emotion log with prompts for noticing the situation, emotion, action urge, and skill used.

Anger Depression Anxiety
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Self-Validation Worksheet

A worksheet for practicing the DBT skill of validating your own experience before trying to change it.

Self Esteem Depression
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Crisis Box Inventory

A planning worksheet for assembling a physical or digital "crisis box" — items, scripts, contacts, distractions.

Depression
DBT

Boundaries Inventory

A worksheet for itemizing the boundaries you currently hold and where they are leaking.

Relationships Self Esteem